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joshua foss  

dying: tears in my eyes my heart will hardly beat i feel like im dying

tears in my eyes my heart will hardly beat i feel like im dying
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siggy  

being alone

My husband is dying of lung and stomach cancer. He has very little time left and I am so scared. I am under 60 and don't know how I will survive.
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heavenlyfather  

Being Evicted and Made Homeless to Die, Trying To Live

I am in need of a car,
My wife is my care taker I am a Kidney Dialysis Patient. All moneys for our rental payments had to be used for emergency out of pocket transportation to the Dialysis Center the month of February 2012 to Royal Oak Michigan. Now we are being evicted. Our court date for Eviction is tomorrow March 13th 2012. The rental office here is giving us 6 days to move out. My only source of income is disability. My wife’s unemployment ran out from her working as a GM supplier for ten years, so now we are poor. Our truck was taken away from us so now my wife has no transportation for traveling to work, or to take me to my treatments. we will be on the street homeless. I have a catheter in my chest used for my Dialysis treatments and I am afraid to live on the streets in Detroit to let die. In need help Emergency eviction asistance, or grant

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Melissapvy  

This is not for me - my parents are in trouble. My mom is very ill

My mom is dying. The bills are piling up and my dad really needs your help. I'm not asking for myself. Mother's been in the hospital since Thanksgiving and we are losing her. Please help. Even a five dollar donation is better than nothing at all and it does add up. To donate please go to

http://www.gofundme.com/daabg

Thank you for your help.
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Flint  

Aidpage Open Letter: No Help

To the attention of:

US Senators from Texas: John Cornyn, Kay Bailey Hutchison;
US Representatives from Texas: Al Green, Blake Farenthold, Charles A. Gonzalez, Chet Edwards, Eddie Bernice Johnson, Francisco R. Canseco, Gene Green, Henry Cuellar, Jeb Hensarling, Joe Barton, John Abney Culberson, John R. Carter, K. Michael Conaway, Kay Granger, Kenny Marchant, Kevin Brady, Lamar Smith, Lloyd Doggett, Louie Gohmert, Mac Thornberry, Michael C. Burgess, Michael T. McCaul, Pete Olson, Pete Sessions, Ralph M. Hall, Randy Neugebauer, Ron Paul, Ruben Hinojosa, Sam Johnson, Sheila Jackson Lee, Silvestre Reyes, Ted Poe;
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I am writing you today because I am litterly watching my wife dying more each day. She has no medical insurance since I was injured on a job Ive had for 17 years. We have applied several times for assistance for her to no avail. Each time they say the household income is to high. I do receive Social Securit buy once we pay our rent we have $500.00 to last the month. I'm at wits end and have considered having to divorce my wife of 30 years and find seperate housing just to save her life. I failed to say she has hepatitis c and other blood disorders. If you know of any other agencies that might be of help to us, please respond. God bless! .

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Geri's Archangel  

Dying and Alone

My soul-mate goes into surgery in two days. I am so far away from her and she is all alone in this country in which she knows very few people and does not speak the language. I just want to be with her... either be there when she dies, or when she survives. Does anyone ACTUALLY come here looking for people to help, or are we all a bunch of desperate, poor losers grasping at straws?

This is my fiancee who has been waiting for me in Spain for two years. She is from Bulgaria. We have been a couple for 4 years. I talked her into leaving her country 2 years ago. I still have not made it to her side.

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help 20  

About help 20

I am in very bad health  13 stents in my heart, stage four kidney disease,copd, lungs are bad they keep filling up with fulid, sugar won't be here much longer and need to save home for family. Iam in need of donations to help me if anyone out there let me know. thank you and may god bless you  all sign help20

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RobS  

Need to visit my sick wife

Hello,

My wife was becoming ill over the past couple of months and finally went back to her country for medical care to find out what was wrong.  After weeks of testing, her condition is terminal.  I do not want to get into what it is, but there is nothing worse.

We had just moved to a new house together and she didn't even get to enjoy it.  We are coming off of a failed business and I am only doing freelance work, and we have no extra money.

I can hear the desparation in her voice, the fear and I need to be with her.  I can about swing the plane ticket, but I would need to be there awhile and would need money to pay some bills here and maybe the next tax payment.  I will sleep on the streets if I have to, as long as I get to see her again.  I want to bring her family pictures, read to her, hold her hand and support her for as long as I can.  

I could not be more desparate and alone in this.  I am going to lose my wife, my house and my future.  Please if you are able, help me.

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Lollaloop  

Desperately needing assistance, my wife is dying

Out of desperation and with no dignity left, i am appealing for help. My wife, Natalie, was diagnosed with non-hodgkin's lymphoma early last spring, after being in remission for almost seven years. Unfortunately this bought with cancer is terminal. I promised Natalie that she would die at home when the time came. I leave my wife alone everyday i go to work. I need to work as I have exhausted all our financial resources and simply have no choice, regardless of how cruel leaving her is. Caring for my wife at home is expensive and beyond any of my resources. We don't qualify for medical benefits as my wife had a previous pre-existing condition. Welfare is not an option unless we are willing to be deceptive. If you had the pleasure of meeting my wife you would know that she is regarded as an honest, generous and caring woman. I would like to take care of my wife and have her die at home in my arms surrounded by her children and bunny, Lollaloop. I'm failing miserably, i don't know what else to do but beg for help. We are proud people, who no longer have the luxury of pride or dignity. If you can help and you may have advice on how to gain help, i would be greatly in you debt. I have sold everything of any value, however i do have a piece of wood that someone may find valuable. When my wife was diagnosed with cancer the first time, her father in-law was cutting down a tree nub and on the face of this nub is the image of what appears to be an angel or the virgin Mary. We've kept it all this time its really the only thing i can think of that someone might find valuable.

I am willing to provide financial records, medical records and references to provide proof of our dire situation.

If you take anything from our story, i plead with you to lobby our government to develop and implement programs to help those families who don't qualify or refuse to deceive the government to access welfare and other government agencies providing desperately needed medical care and medications.

Thank you,

Natasha Reid

 

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Bcmi-India  

Save R.Karthic From Dying

M.Karthic and his brother Barathi are with Bethel Orphanage for the last 7 years.  Both the parents were victims of HIV and were killed. But now Karthic has the tracs of HIV, throat gland and Heart valve congession. This was an un-expected developed. We are shocked and broken. Innocent children who just begin to blossom had to go through these difficulties. We are giving him care.

For further investigation, and for a by-pass if neeced we need your prayers and support. Please!visit www.bethelerc.org and from there you can send donations through paypal. We will despatch officla receipts to you.

Thanks a lot!

Sincerely,

Rev.Dass.T

Director

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cherie3  

About cherie3

we flew to tenn. to see my dying dad.he gave me my inheritance in the form of a van. told us that we would have no problems driving it back to Wa. state. we tried to drive to Fla. to help my sister with her landscaping businesss but our trany went out in Georgia.we did make it to Fla.been here 2 yrs this mth. the lord guides us in mysterious ways. we have replaced the computer box,starter, bought 11 tires, the front brakes. the a.c is going, the inside lites &fan dont work. needs rear brakes, shocks,etc .We work. my husband is dying, he was supposed to be back in Wa last yr 4 medical attention.He wont leave without me.He is a 20 yr carpenter with references.We would like work here n Fla. &across the country 2 get back 2 Wa. state to take care of medical problems and 2 be with our children and grands. I am writing a book about the homeless situation and how hard it is to ask 4 help when u r dying. I try 2 get shutins out into the world.I was once 1.Thanks 2 God & my husband I can now deal with asking 4 help. Please hep us get home. Either with work or a donation.We have good refs.God bless u

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sherryberrys  

A poem to my dying son

Will I be able to say goodbye when that time comes.  Will I be able to speak the words that dont roll easily off my tounge. Will I be able to let you go away from this world.Will I say those words that I know will tear my heart into... Yes my son, I can do that for
you.  Because of the love I have for you, I will be able to
say goodbye to you....  
I know thats the only way you will leave here in peace, is
to hear that from me

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CowboyLogic  

About CowboyLogic

I am 35 years old I moved from Dallas Texas to Fort Lauderdale Florida For work the company i worked for closed and i was put to the street after selling all my stuff and draining my back accounts I was Raped by a group of men while tring to eran some cash I am Now HIV+ I know i dont have any thing to live for and no reason to ask but i do want to live i need money for meds and doc visits i would be just as happy to work for it or move some where just to have a place to live and get off the streets i am not going to beg but i can do more then most and prove all that has happened to me i just need a turn of luck

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helpinghands  

About helpinghands

HELLO, MY NAME IS SHERL AND I AM HERE TO BEG SOMEONE TO HELP ME AND I AS ALWAYS WILL VOLUNTEER. I AM GOING DIE IF I CANNOT GET A DENTIST TO HELP MY MOUTH PROBLEMS. WHEN I WAS SMALL MY PARENTS PULLED MY TEETH OUT AS PUNISHMENT FOR BEING BORN. I RAISED 5 CHILDREN AND WORKED 35 YEARS AND HAVE NO DENTAL INSURANCE AND NO ONE IN TRAVIS,WILLIAMSON COUNTIES WILL WORK ON MY MOUTH. IT IS SWOLLEN AND A DENTIST TORE 3 TEETH OUT OF MY LAST ONES ONLY TO TELL ME SHE WOULD NOT HELP ME GET NEW TEETH IN THE FRONT. I WORKED MY WHOLE LIFE AND LOVE GOD AND I AM SCARED AND ALONE. MY KIDS WONT HELP AND I FEEL SO MUCH PAIN I WANT TO DIE AND WILL CAUSE I CANNOT EAT NOR DRINK. PAIN, 3 TOP TEETH LEFT AND NOW 1 IS KILLING ME TODAY. HARDLY ANY BOTTOM TEETH. I KNOW THERE IS A WAR AND SO MANY PEOPLE WITH MUCH MORE ON THEIR PLATES AND I WANt TO HELP,BUT I AM SLOWING LOSING MY LIFE BECAUSE OF SELFISH DENTISTS WHO WANT THE DOLLAR.WHERE DID CHARITY GO????I HAVE CALLED SO MANY DENTISTS BUT I AM WITHOUT WORK BECAUSE OF DISEASE AND FILING FOR DISABILITY. MY STORY HAS SO MUCH MORE ABUSE AND HURT TO IT BUT DO ANY OF U CARE OUT THERE. IS ANYONE LISTENING AND CAN ANYONE HELP ME. LOST 40 POUNDS AND I AM DYING,HELP ME,I PRAY GOD SENDS A PERSON TO HELP ME PLEASE. THANK YOU,SHERL TRAVIS COUNTY
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spitfire777  

About spitfire777

My Mom has stage iv cancer. It is very aggressive and we just found out that it has grown in size and spread to more areas of her liver. She is also having trouble eating because of the cancer in the esophagus. She has much more pain, more dental issues, and chemo can't be started either until the dental work is done. I thought we had this taken care of, but the dentist that offered to do it at cost now says we still have to pay for the anesthesia and it is almost $3000.

I have raised a lot so far but we are still far short of the mark and we're running out of time. We still need $1287.50. This chemo is the only chance she has of living longer. I am requesting any amount donation you can afford to give to help hurry this process up so we can at least have a chance of it going in remission. An operation is not an option. I have contacted her church where she was the secretary for years. They are telling all the members about this website and this posting. Anything you can afford, even just $1 would be appreciated. Please, I know this is a tall order, but my father died when I was 3 and I and my kids are all she has. I want to save my mom's life. Thank you in advance for your consideration. God Bless.

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Libby21  

About Libby21

 I am going to die from the pain I am going through.  I cannot find help from anywhere I have recently been put on temporary disability due to the pain in my teeth.

  I need An Oral Surgeon that will except my medical coupon as I have NO MONEY because I cannot work and I need some teeth removed possible or something but cant affrod seven hundred dollars for anesthesia.

  I dont know what I am  doing on this website but I will do anything if I could just get my teeth worked on.

  PLEASE HELP MY OR I AM AFRAID I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO GO ON ANYMORE

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Cathy1488  

Will you help with funeral expenses?

I'm trying to find money for funeral expenses for my mom.  She was diagnosed with lung cancer that had spread to her brain abut 4 months ago.  She had a stroke last week and the docs didn't think she would make it through the day but she has surprised everyone.  All the doctors agree though that the cancer will kill her in the next 6 months.  She has no life insurance and is on social security.  I have moved her in with me but I am a single mother of 4.  I have been doing what I can to take care of her and continue to work but I am only getting like 20 hours a week in lately.  The bills are already getting behind.  I worry that I will not be able to pay the rent.  I don't know how I can come up with money to take care of funeral expenses.  Will you please help me?  I want to take care of my mom and I don't want her to worry about these things anymore.  Thank you and God bless you.

Cathy 

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ganut  

Comment: my friend theresa really could...

Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Home page of ganut"

my friend theresa really could use this help. her husband is terminal from cancer and they have an awesome six year old son. This all was so unexpected. Her husband made the money to support the family building beautiful cypress furniture. She only recieves a samll disability check. She can not pay the mortgage, the lights, or anything. They have no life insursance. She is emotionlly and financially drained. If you can't donante please send a prayer!
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ganut  

My name is Tammy and I am not the one in need of help although I use to think I needed it. I have a friend whose husband is terminal with cancer and finally has been sent home from the hopital on hospice. He was the main breadwinner and was very good at it!  He built cypress furniture of all sorts and sold it. They have a remarkable six year old son named Little John. Theresa, his wife only receives a small disability check and is financially and emotionally distraught at this time; not to mention Big John does not have much more precious time left with us. She is doing all she can but can not pay her mortgage, lights, and is worried about the burial expenses and what will happen after John is gone. See John is fairly young and owning his own business he did not think this would happen; as many of do not.....life insurance was not in the plan.  I pray for them often! I found this web site and thought this may be God's answer to their prayers. maybe I can get some answers for their family here. Can you guys please help me help them!!!!!

 

 

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